Has one of your children ever thrown a world-class fit in a store?

My son Trent did that once when he was little. I was out of town, and Jean was alone with him in the checkout aisle. Trent wanted a candy bar and had a meltdown when his mom told him no.

Jean was a new mom and was embarrassed that she couldn’t get Trent under control. Fortunately, a man dressed in a military uniform intervened and told Trent, “Son, you need to listen to your mother.”

I don’t know who that man was, but I say, “Thank you.”

Situations like that frequently happen to moms and dads, but it’s not always clear how to respond.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting January 25, 2023 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

One of the main reasons parents contact Focus on the Family is for help sharing their faith with their children.

Our Focus on the Family Broadcast “Sharing Your Faith with Your Kids” is designed to address that concern by equipping parents to share their faith and disciple their children more intentionally.

Our guest is Natalie Frisk, author of the book Raising Disciples: How to Make Faith Matter for Our Kids. She believes that having conversations about God with children in every stage of life helps make these discussions less awkward and more meaningful.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting January 19, 2023 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Most couples expect the skills for raising children to come to them naturally. Certain parenting instincts “kick into gear” when you become a mom or a dad, of course, but most of us are surprised by how challenging parenting can be and how much hard work and energy it requires.

It’s human nature to look for short-cuts or “formulas” to make the job easier. But there are no formulas.

God puts every parent on a journey to discover who their children are and what their children most need to become who they were designed to be.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting January 9, 2023 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

As a father, I’ve enjoyed every stage of parenting. From toddlerhood to adulthood, parenting offers wonderful surprises and opportunities to learn new things about your children.

Of course, there are always challenges along the way. At its heart, parenting is a marathon, not a sprint. When you start a family, you have to be in it for the long haul.

Which is why so many parents are emotionally exhausted. They believe the secret to a successful family is trying harder and doing more.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting January 3, 2023 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

At what age would you say children become adults? Sixteen? Eighteen? Twenty-one?

Answers among parents likely vary widely. Psychologist, author, and expert in adolescent and family relationships, Dr. Ken Wilgus, says adulthood isn’t a moment in time as much as a process of growth he calls “Progressive Emancipation.”

He encourages parents to think of their teenagers as adults in training. Teens, he says, are not big children; they are young adults. Around age 13, childhood comes to its natural end, but that doesn’t mean that your job as a parent is over.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting December 27, 2022 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

The war in Ukraine.

Starting a new school.

Staying home alone.

Fear of the dark.

Every child worries. It’s normal for children to feel anxious when navigating new experiences or processing difficult news. In fact, fear is a healthy response in some circumstances.

The goal is to teach children discernment and balance. A healthy fear of busy intersections or growling dogs is good. But feeling hindered, even crippled, by worry in everyday life is not.

On our Focus on the Family Broadcast “Helping Kids Navigate Worry in Healthy Ways,” we’re sharing practical advice for equipping your child to manage his or her fears.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting December 22, 2022 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

What if you and your children each spoke different languages?

Imagine the challenges. How would you communicate? How would you express your love? Even if you repeatedly said the words, “I love you,” your child might never be able to fully receive your love on an emotional level. To communicate in a way that your child understands, you would need to learn to speak his or her language.

The truth is your child does speak his or her own language.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting December 13, 2022 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

As you read this today, you may have a prodigal child who is in trouble, or in danger. They’re seemingly lost in bad friends, bad choices, and bad consequences. Your other children feel left behind in the wake of their sibling’s chaos. And you’re questioning where you went wrong.

Few things are as painful as children who turn away from their family and the values they were taught. The deeper the pain, the harder hope is to find.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting November 23, 2022 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

What’s your ideal image of the perfect parent?

Is it a mom pulling fresh-baked cookies out of the oven right as her children come home from school?

Is it a dad in the yard with a couple of baseball mitts and a ball, inviting his son to come out and play?

Or maybe you imagine someone who’s never too busy, who never raises their voice, and who never gets annoyed or distracted.

Authors Brandon and Analyn Miller remember a season of their parenting when nothing seemed to get them closer to their ideal vision of parenting despite access to an abundance of advice and parenting resources.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: parenting November 10, 2022 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura