Family and Home Archives

Dealing with Emotional Disconnection in Marriage

I don’t think I’m overstating things when I say that most men have trouble opening up emotionally. Guys put up walls around their feelings for lots of reasons, but the consequence is always the same. They’re disconnected from deeper, more meaningful experiences with their spouse, children, and friends.

Men don’t usually use the word “disconnected” to describe themselves (we prefer descriptors like “lone wolf” or the “strong, silent type”), but as Shakespeare said, “A rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” A disconnected man is one who is unaware that he is nonrelational, distant, and emotionally unavailable.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: family, marriage September 5, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Home or Hotel?

The next time your teenager doesn’t want to help out around the house, you’ve got an important decision to make. Do you want your child to live in a home or a hotel?

You see, a home is where a family lives. It’s where moms and dads and sons and daughters all contribute together to the running of the household in whatever way they’re capable. A hotel, on the other hand, is where people are waited on hand and foot and their every need is met.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: family, kids September 4, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Godly Rhythms to Help You Live Life to the Full

Busyness gets rewarded.

At work.

At church.

At home.

Some of us wear busyness as a badge of honor. We don’t want our kids to miss an opportunity, so we schedule them to the max. We’re busy from sunup to sundown and get by on coffee and energy drinks. We pledge to slow down when there’s a break in the action, but there’s never a break. Something always rushes in to fill the void.

The problem with that lifestyle is it’s unsustainable.

Topics: Family and Home September 3, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Listening to the Heart of Your Kids

Jean and I recognized early on in our parenting that our boys, Trent and Troy, needed to be parented differently. They were – and are – individuals. They each had their own personalities, needs, and interests. Sometimes that was a challenge to navigate. They did share one thing in common with each other – and with your children: the desire to be heard and valued.

Listening to the heart of your children is key to being an effective parent and having a strong relationship with them as they grow into adulthood.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: family, kids September 2, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Living with Contagious Joy in Christ

It’s easy – even for Christians – to develop a negative attitude about the world. We can feel concerned and discouraged about many things – corruption in government, injustice, poverty, war, abortion.

Author Brant Hansen knows the struggle with anxiety all too well. His dad was a pastor whose hypocritical behavior and affair tore his family apart. It was a frightening and dark time for Brant, his brother, and his mother, who were forced to give up all they had and move into a small house.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: faith, family August 28, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Team Hoyt

One of the most inspiring parenting stories I’ve heard is about father and son, Dick and Rick Hoyt. Rick, the son, was born with cerebral palsy in 1962. Doctors said Rick would bring nothing but pain and suggested that he be institutionalized. Instead, his parents, Dick and Judy, devoted their lives to their son for nearly 60 years.

In fact, Dick was so determined to build a relationship with Rick that he ran marathons with him.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: faith, family August 27, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Simple Ways to Organize Your Home and Family

Are you “organizationally challenged”?

Keeping a house tidy and organized is a challenge for a lot of us, especially those of us who have young children. It’s like brushing your teeth while eating Oreos. When children are older, they can participate in house cleaning and common tasks like laundry and dishes, but what’s the best way to get them involved?

With me on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly is Kristi Clover. She’s a home organization expert and a mom of five kids ranging from preschool to young adults.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: faith, family August 23, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Simple Steps to Improve Your Marriage

Could you use a simple tip to improve your marriage?

How about 100 simple tips?

Matt and Lisa Jacobson, my guests on Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, actually have them for you.

After 25 years of marriage, Matt and Lisa looked at each other one day and decided, “Let’s each write down one hundred things that we’ve done to create a loving marriage.” When they compared notes, they realized that each day is the culmination of little decisions that stack up over time.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: faith, family August 22, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Vision for Who They’ll Become

The most effective parents are visionaries.

Let me tell you about Tom. As a young boy, he developed a hearing problem. It caused him a lot of trouble at school. Tom’s mind constantly wandered, making him disruptive in class, which frustrated his teachers. They considered him “stupid, restless, and a slow learner who asked too many questions.” All in all, his public education was a complete failure.

If that were your son, I’m sure you’d be concerned.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: faith, family August 20, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura

Deepening Your Relationship with Thoughtful Conversation

Thanks to the Internet and social media, we’re more connected to each other than ever. At least, we like to think we are. The fact of the matter is quite different.

Just a few years ago, only ten percent of Americans said they were lonely. According to recent research, that number has nearly doubled. The very technology we thought would draw us closer together is making us feel more isolated instead.

Our need for human connection is wired into our DNA.

Topics: Family and Home Tags: faith, family August 19, 2024 by Jim Daly with Paul Batura