It takes two healthy spouses to make a satisfying relationship — but just one unhealthy spouse to weaken it.
That can cause trouble for people who don’t self-evaluate, who assume everything’s going well unless their spouse tells them otherwise. A better approach is to take accountability for the good of our marriage by attending to how we act and speak to our spouse. Each of us has both flaws and virtues, and it is our personal responsibility to improve ourselves for the overall health of our marriage.
Author, speaker, and licensed marriage and family therapist Dr.